tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4908993162747549850.post6627866139067390436..comments2023-08-10T10:52:52.937+05:30Comments on Thoughts: Love Vs TrustAmbadihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12126135202327179403noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4908993162747549850.post-62999839699932622372017-11-23T23:02:41.753+05:302017-11-23T23:02:41.753+05:30Love isn’t all that rational so can’t be written a...Love isn’t all that rational so can’t be written about from the mind. Same probably for trust. Real love is unconditional whether you feel trust or not isn’t relevant to love itself. You love for no reason and require nothing. We humans doubt everything so how can full trust be achieved? Maybe only conditional trust or a formed understanding. We can be foolish when in love, desperate and trust doesn’t necessarily play a role. It’s not necessarily more important than love. At the same time, trust which is something we work on to condition our mind or it blindly takes place when we want to feel okay about a bond with humans. However maybe full trust can’t be achieved because we’re prone to doubt unless were confident in someone’s character as a person. To trust we don’t want to have doubts but that’s almost impossible since we doubt in all aspects of life outside of love itself. Even in the strongest love if we do not meet expectations or began to fail as a human we learn that both love and trust with humans might be conditional. Even if we have true love and solid trust established with someone it’s probably conditional and needs duties or action to sustain. We feel it in the heart but our minds complicate things. We see this all the time happening in human relationships. If true unconditional love was practiced emphasis on trust wouldn’t be as relevant. We humans are more fulfilled by love than trust I think but again it’s complicated because our minds are jumpy. To conclude, I would say that for closeness with a human, love is most important. Ideally mutual unconditional love but practicality, sustainability all play a role too in shaping the kind of Love people share. Things like human tendencies, experiences, labels, systems and expectations can complicate unconditional love. The only things that seem to complicate trust is doubt itself or actions of another person. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4908993162747549850.post-86198926801280225092017-11-23T22:56:20.534+05:302017-11-23T22:56:20.534+05:30Love isn’t all that rational so can’t be written a...Love isn’t all that rational so can’t be written about from the mind. Same probably for trust. Real love is unconditional whether you feel trust or not isn’t relevant to love itself. You love for no reason and require nothing. We humans doubt everything so how can full trust be achieved? Maybe only conditional trust or a formed understanding. We can be foolish when in love, desperate and trust doesn’t necessarily play a role. It’s not necessarily more important than love. At the same time, trust which is something we work on to condition our mind or it blindly takes place when we want to feel okay about a bond with humans. However maybe full trust can’t be achieved because we’re prone to doubt unless were confident in someone’s character as a person. To trust we don’t want to have doubts but that’s almost impossible since we doubt in all aspects of life outside of love itself. Even in the strongest love if we do not meet expectations or began to fail as a human we learn that both love and trust with humans might be conditional. Even if we have true love and solid trust established with someone it’s probably conditional and needs duties or action to sustain. We feel it in the heart but our minds complicate things. We see this all the time happening in human relationships. If true unconditional love was practiced emphasis on trust wouldn’t be as relevant. We humans are more fulfilled by love than trust I think but again it’s complicated because our minds are jumpy. To conclude, I would say that for closeness with a human, love is most important. Ideally mutual unconditional love but practicality, sustainability all play a role too in shaping the kind of Love people share. Things like human tendencies, experiences, labels, systems and expectations can complicate unconditional love. The only things that seem to complicate trust is doubt itself or actions of another person. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4908993162747549850.post-53215963819231425332015-01-14T17:52:26.425+05:302015-01-14T17:52:26.425+05:30Love is a gift, Trust has to be earned. One can ac...Love is a gift, Trust has to be earned. One can accept the Love and may reciprocate to fuel the relationship if desired. As the relation grows further, Trust has to develop during the process of being in relationship..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4908993162747549850.post-9658775724291267002012-12-24T00:42:20.452+05:302012-12-24T00:42:20.452+05:30Honestly, I think that love can be easily bought w...Honestly, I think that love can be easily bought whereas trust has to be earned. Buy a diamond ring (for a girl) and a girl will love you. If I bought an expensive gift for trust, they will just suckle on you till you bleed and leave.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4908993162747549850.post-7447690730354280802012-03-25T11:13:53.407+05:302012-03-25T11:13:53.407+05:30If you do not trust a person you do not love them,...If you do not trust a person you do not love them, period. You can trust a person without loving them but you can not love without trust.<br /><br />http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/love-bytes/201105/love-without-trust-is-not-love-allAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4908993162747549850.post-66829311707975839722012-01-11T10:52:32.700+05:302012-01-11T10:52:32.700+05:30Thanks for sharing your thoughts Jay. Truly appre...Thanks for sharing your thoughts Jay. Truly appreciate it. There is definitely a time that comes in our lives where most of us come across this question. <br />I believe that Love and Trust are a medium . . . to connect, and to nurture our life. If there is a disconnect, I found its best to accept it, and work towards what is in the best benefit. <br />Yes, I do make sure I do my bit of showing the love and being trustworthy. At times, it does hurt, but if we condition ourselves, I am sure that we can still continue to give / receive love and trust in all aspects of our life, only to make it worthwhile.Adyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04791302372990606285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4908993162747549850.post-81631724625392812282012-01-10T14:35:29.716+05:302012-01-10T14:35:29.716+05:30Profound Thoughts on this topic !!
What feels bet...Profound Thoughts on this topic !!<br /><br />What feels better to you being trusted or being loved? What is more important to you? Don't they both go hand in hand? How can you love someone you don't trust? <br />These are queries which arose in my mind after going through your post..<br /><br />For Me Love and Trust go hand in hand..but then if I love a person be it my Partner in Life..My Friends etc. I would still continue to love even if there is breach in trust..yess I will feel hurt for the break in my trust in that person..but I will move forgive and move on coz I cant be without that person..Finally I swallow the lump of this distrust caused to me and I overcome my grief over it (If at all it is that deep or heart breaking)and will continue to love that person as always..<br /><br />Heard on personal basis during my teens about real story of elopement by a married lady who had a very loving husband and 2 small kids..Suddenly she goes missing with a friend of hers who was her colleague too..She goes away with him with all the gold in the house..Finally she is caught along with her paramour by the Police..both have no remorse on their act whatsoever..Elders interfere..in spite of their behaviour against societal norms..their respective partners take them back..I felt surprised/shocked in those days..that how could a hubby take back his wife and mother of his two kids once she eloped with someone..(also the wife of other fellow who had no means to survive without taking back her husband..so out of helplessness too) spent a few days with him and in process broke his heart full of trust..I was shocked when He took her back as his Wife..The reason behind this was his undying love for his Wife who later on realized her folly and tremendous mistake she committed..fell more in love with her Husband and is now a Grandma of 4 grownup grand children..Still happily living with her Husband caring and sharing..Hats off and Salutes to Our Guy..I considered him as a Hero Uncle in my teens..when others continued to jeer and mock him for taking back his wife into his life who had chosen discard him for another man..but The love he had though Trust was breached upon..Won ..So yes necessarily Love is important than Trust..We can sure Love one person without having trust on that person<br /><br />Personally I'd like to be trusted by everyone and loved by just a few.I have been equally fortunate in having friends who love me and including a wonderful husband. I think, in the case of friends and husbands, the two go together. I need both. But then again I would continue to love them even if there is a likelihood of being breached of my trust in them..wont just stop loving them. Such things Happen..After all we are Human Beings..:))<br /><br />Fantastic Post !!!bindu menonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17674455196300510544noreply@blogger.com